An “Inviting” Glimpse

Planning our wedding has been
one of the most joyful, exciting and encouraging times in my life. I love
watching our ideas turn into plans and plans spring into actions creating
beautiful reality. The guest list transforms into addresses on envelopes,
wedding dress shopping turns into the
fitting and discussing who will marry us blossoms into a fun, encouraging
appointment with our pastor.

One of the most exhilarating and
~challenging~ adventures thus far has been the making of invitations. We
had saved money by deciding on a local location, ordering dried flowers and finding
a dress on sale. {Eeeeeee!} Because of our so-far thriftiness, I wanted to make
the invitations ourselves.

To get started, I found a
pattern I liked and began, with the help of my wonderful mom, to create
something out of nothing. This proved to be (a lot) harder than expected but
I am very excited with the results so far! J

Next, we decided to have an
invitation assembling party! Woot! This was a lot of fun—I bought each of the
girl’s favorite candy, assembled the supplies in some sort of order while mom
set the counter for a baked potato bar (baked potatoes surrounded by toppings
like chili, cheese, sour cream and anything else your carb-loving,
starch-enjoying tummy could desire). Our friends worked so diligently and I had
so much fun seeing my piles of paper begin to become mail worthy.


( Haha! Looks like the camera caught us in a fit of professional seriousness. 🙂

There is about ten more hours of
work before these babies will be ready for debut (which I will of course let
you in on!). Until then I’ll share a few handy-dandy tips I have found useful.
Count the costs … literally.
I forgot neglected to calculate the costs which turned out to be
more than expected. I assumed that because I make cards I would have the
supplies needed. Wrong.
Have candy on hand
Have protein on hand (this
is more important than step 2 even though it isn’t quite as fun)
Let go of the little
details yet stick to the original beauty you envisioned.
Coffee, coffee, coffee,
coffee … COFFEE
Buy a lovely return
address stamp unless you tend to be like me … a wee bit over zealous and have
an attachment to the hand written appeal
Learn to laugh, go to
bed if need be, practice over-abundant gratitude to those helping and again …
go to bed if needed J
Pop in your favorite films
(Les Miserables, Little Women and Julie and Julia anyone?) or listen to a
sermon to help the time pass by
Better yet, pray for
each guest as they come to mind
My favorite: use the time preparing your mind. You are a bride; a bride endeavoring to be prepared for the day you walk
down the aisle to meet your wonderful, sweet groom. Most likely, he will not
mind if the glue stick makes the vellum bubble a little or that the RSVP stamp
might be a wee bit crooked—he just can’t wait to call you his. Enjoy it, sweet
I want to say thank you for
your wonderful notes of love you have given to Dalton and I! We truly
appreciate it!
each of you who have shown an interest in exchanging mailing addresses or
emails, yes, yes, yes! J Please grant me a few more days of work time and soon after
I will be back in touch. Ah, your friendships are so precious to me!

4 thoughts on “An “Inviting” Glimpse

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    The invitations are coming along so lovely! Yes, coffee and sermons or music are two very helpful friends when working on a project! The result of your diligence is truly a joy to see!

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    How lovely!!! I am so very happy for you, my friend! I honestly can't say how much. 🙂 It is so neat to see God blessing you in this way!
    The wedding invites look fantastic. I'm sure everyone will appreciate them all the more for being hand-made.
    I would *love* to swap emails/mailing address!!!! Please?? 🙂
    Looking forward to hearing more about your plans!

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    Oooo, so beautiful and exciting!! It must be so incredible to be making these with your own hands and infusing so much love into them! I'm so happy for you I could squeal!!!!!!

    Still praying for you and Dalton and your families, dear friend! Thank you so much for letting us distant friends "watch" the steps leading up to your new life together! It's such a cozy feeling!! <3

    Big hugs to you!


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